Buddhism and Common Sense – The Key to Inspiring Others

Buddhism: The Supreme Path of Life

Sensei began by emphasizing that Buddhism constitutes the highest form of reason. Those of us who practice Nichiren Buddhism should strive to be courteous and thoughtful in our actions. He cited the key principle that “faith manifests itself in daily life” and added:
“Buddhism is not an empty theory, nor is it simply for cultivating our minds. It is a teaching for daily life, a profound perspective championed by Mr. Makiguchi and Mr. Toda. Buddhism teaches us how to create the greatest value in living.”

Nichiren Daishonin, too, highlighted this idea, teaching that all phenomena are manifestations of the Buddhist Law. In contemporary terms, this means that our faith must be reflected in our daily behavior. Our actions as members of society must meet the standards of common sense and decency.

Faith Without Wisdom Can Harm

Sensei explained that practicing Buddhism does not grant us a free pass to behave irresponsibly. He said: “If you behave in an unseemly manner and are criticized by others, or if you believe you can do as you please because you practice faith, then you are denigrating the Law.”

He reminded us that Buddhism is a path for human beings—a supreme way of life. Nichiren Daishonin himself emphasized that the Buddha’s teachings are ultimately expressed in actions and behavior.

“The purpose of the Buddha’s appearance in this world lies in his behavior as a human being,” Nichiren taught. Sensei further explained that the Buddha is often called the “hero of the world” because his enlightenment is reflected in his daily actions.

For us as practitioners, this means striving to be individuals of outstanding character, rich in common sense and wisdom.

Practical Wisdom in Everyday Life

To illustrate the importance of common sense, Sensei shared examples close to members’ lives.

• Attending Funerals of Other Faiths:
  Some members hesitate to attend funerals conducted in accordance with other religions. Sensei stressed that refusing to attend such events can be socially inappropriate. “We attend funerals not to practice another religion but to pay respects to the deceased and pray for their eternal happiness,” he explained. Chanting Daimoku in our hearts during such occasions is the greatest offering we can make.

Additionally, our presence at funerals can form a connection between those around us and Nichiren Buddhism, simply through our sincerity and compassion.

• Avoiding Thoughtless Behavior:
  Sensei also warned against being overzealous in sharing Buddhism. Visiting someone’s home late at night, just as they are preparing for bed, and keeping them up until midnight for a discussion is not considerate, no matter how pure our intentions. “Even with the best of intentions, your actions could be perceived as a nuisance,” he said. Expecting someone to embrace faith under such circumstances is unrealistic and may only lead to misunderstandings.

• Speaking with Respect and Care:
  When introducing others to Buddhism or offering guidance, Sensei emphasized that our words and actions must reflect respect.“Avoid using coarse or abusive language, and never adopt a patronizing tone. Rude or thoughtless words can create lasting misunderstandings about the Soka Gakkai,” he cautioned.

Our conduct shapes how others perceive our faith. To truly inspire others, we must earn a reputation as well-mannered, kind, and compassionate individuals.

The Importance of Wisdom and Character

Ultimately, Sensei explained, logic alone cannot inspire others to embrace Buddhism. Even if someone agrees with your reasoning, if they dislike your behavior, their view of Buddhism may remain negative.

“This is human nature,” he said.

For this reason, it’s vital to hone our wisdom, polish our character, and let our actions reflect the true spirit of faith. As practitioners, we must become individuals of profound common sense and integrity—people who earn the respect and trust of all around us.

Key Takeaways for Listeners

1. Faith Manifests in Daily Life: Our actions must reflect the principles of Buddhism, showing respect, compassion, and wisdom.

2. Avoid Overzealousness: Thoughtless or inappropriate behavior, even with good intentions, can create misunderstandings.

3. Speak and Act with Respect: Kindness and consideration are essential when introducing others to Buddhism.

4. Wisdom Over Logic: Inspiring others requires more than sound arguments—it demands sincerity, warmth, and understanding.

5. Be Exemplars of Faith: As practitioners, our character and common sense should shine, earning the respect of society.

[Closing Reflection]
"Buddhism teaches us how to live as human beings—how to act with dignity, kindness, and wisdom. Sensei’s guidance reminds us that our faith is not separate from daily life. By embodying respect and common sense in all we do, we can inspire others and create lasting value. Let’s strive to become individuals who uplift and inspire everyone we encounter."

Disclaimer: "This podcast is based on teachings and guidance shared by Sensei, as interpreted and paraphrased for educational and inspirational purposes. While key quotes and ideas are retained to ensure accuracy, the majority of the content has been rewritten to provide fresh insights and storytelling. This content is not intended to replace official texts or guidance but to encourage personal reflection and practice. Listeners are encouraged to refer to original Soka Gakkai literature and resources for further study and understanding."

This story is inspired from NHR Volume 4